“Claudia” contacted me via dating website passion.com or also known as adultfriendfinder.com. I said “too bad you live in sacramento,” as I live in WA state. Then she wanted to switch the conversation over to email. Where she would send me individual emails (never replying to my emails which is a good tell that she is on an auto responder; I should have known this). Her grammar was horrendous, and sorry just because you are from Perth, does not mean that you can’t type English. Email 1: How are you doing today ? And thanks for your response…am sorry i didn’t include more photo with enough information on the website…i purposely didn’t do this because I’m new to the internet forum and wouldn’t like to attach all my personal details to the public site because i don’t know what i’ll get from here…But anyway if you keen to know more about me … Can you tell me what you’re looking for in me and what your plans are for a better future? What are you looking for achieve in 5 years from now. Tell me a little bit about you. Email 2: Hello, I hope this find you well wherever you are. I decided to write you now . I am to tell you little about me and also hope to know more about you before moving forward or exchanging #, Well i do stay here Santa Cruz Way, Sacramento, CA and i don’t mind to relocate if things workout for us. I would really like to find out more about you ,but i don’t always get on line to chat but i always update my my private mail account, I believe in getting to know someone 1st that friendships are built. I believe in an open communication, being honest, and having integrity. Honoring and respecting each other is high on my list. I treat people the way I like to be treated. I believe what comes around goes around. I am a very compassionate person. I am in no rush, I think it’s very important to take time to get to know someone, just has it has happened in most successful relationships today. Am looking for a man that will be able to listen to me , communicate his feelings to me , make me laugh, respect me, support me in every way, love me and only me, make me smile, protect me when needed,constantly reactive, and treat me right. I do not have the time to meet others out in a public setting Feel free to write back anytime,to me i love a long conversation.Why Some say’s I am a fool for seeking love…I say a fool is one who does not seek it but i will love to see the caring and kind man to prove this wrong for having more believe that real love and God fearing men are out there. My full name is Claudia Felton. Care to read back from you, Claudia. Email 3: Dear, It’s nice to read from you soon and am glad to know more about you .As for me , am the only child of my parents, and i have lived in Tel Aviv Israel Because of my Dad’s job. We also attended many different kinds of churches including Lutheran, Catholic, Baptist but now I attend church services. Although not as often as I should. I do speak to God on a regular basis though. It helps me to keep life in perspective and balanced. When I do go to church, I go to a Presbyterian church near my home. I can honestly admit I enjoy going and do not have a valid reason for not going on a more regular basis,my Dad put me into this before his dead. My Dad retired from the State Department and my Mom is also a retired school teacher (math). I moved along with my dad to state here cos i love my dad so much as he started his International trading to Africa after his retirement from the state department. Am the only child of my parent… life is always nice when you have your parents by your side, mine is pretty touch cos i lost my dad too soon. What brings me down back here to State is the peace and tranquility here due to my work and my dad’s Property , I realized my work will do well here due to the advise giving to me by my mother to go into a business and also she really wanna know my man to be, as my future partner I don’t have any free time to have fun than to make my mother feel better by showing up my Man to be for marriage and safe to see her grand Child which she have been disturbing for, cos my dad left too soon and i don’t want to let my mom leave without seeing her grand children and She really wanna know the Mr right for me as well am not down here to play than reality. Since my stay here,things have been tough ..due to the bad economy i lost my job at the bank. I worked as customer service rep, thankfully though i have a new gainful employment planning to be an international trader,i want to go into buying and selling of art works,of which my father is a distributor of used trucks into west part of Africa before the accident of pipeline explosion which i lost him .Well,I gained a lot of experience from him,before i decided now to go into buying and selling for now of which my mother gave me the advise of this and as well not to loose my father’s property despite the fact that the wear house was burnt up, but the Government did mention about a compensation for us and to get an update about the compensation money.well i will write you more about this soon in next message soon cos i could not stand the tears any more of remembering of my late Father died! This make me share tears whenever i remembered the past. Initially, i never found any serious relationship i could finalize my life with and to let my mother knows that am serious about this marriage.I think i have helped and done enough out for men, but they bare all ingrates all i could have from them is a heart break!!But i see all i go through in life as challenges..Am not after a man’s wealth nor his money,but his love. This friendship I want to build with you will be filled with substance, quality, spirituality and potential. you sound so nice in your previous message and I want the real thing with you,someone I can hold, hug, kiss, love, laugh and share my life with go the distance, walk the walk of life dance for ever. Someone that has time and love for me and only me,that wants me to be his Queen as he shall become my King. I’m just tired of being by myself not having someone to talk too,to come home too,to eat dinner with,to watch TV and fight over the remote control,lol day to days,those simple pleasures life has to offer. What I’m asking of you, is to be honest about what you are looking for? What do you want? Need? Do you have time for a serious relationship? Are you willing to commit?The reason I’m asking is because I want more than an Internet relationship, more than chats, e-mails or letters regardless if we become good friends or something more,because I’m a people person, I like to share and interact with others free to know more about each other better.. Hope to write you more if chance ! Some Question out here again I love animals. Thanks for the time you take in knowing me better… my question below. 1.can i trust you enough? 2.do you have a girl friend or wife? 3.what exactly do you seek from me…please be sincere 4.do you belief in online dating? 5.lastly What are the qualities of your ideal relationship 6.What is the most annoying thing that someone could do for you? 7.Have you ever had a pet and Tell me your feeling about animals ? 8.What is your favorite restaurant? Tell me why ? 9. What do you do for living ? This question may be meaningless to you but i have my reasons and i will love to tell you them I have to go now…i will humbly wait for your answers before i open a introduction about myself. Regards, Claudia Email 4: Hi Dear, Thanks for your response and your cooperation for giving answers to my questions…it really did provide me a Good understanding of who you are and i can see from your message that we have so many things in common,which already shows that we’re match! Lets just take things slow, we shall for sure meet… Honestly, you’re the kind of man i’m looking for…Our connection is truly a change of life for both of us…we’re heaven sent for each-other if i can use that and i’m willing and ready to share and spend the rest of my life with you. I’m not a materialistic freak ..i’m always satisfied with what i have and i do not jealous others that have more than i do. I’m also a positive and optimistic lady..i don’t care about what life would brings for me…all i live for is to strive to survive.. About your views in a relationship i can assure you that i’m perfectly the kind of woman you’re looking for. But we do not need to rush anything yet my dear…we need to be patient to meet in person to see if . Along side,i can also call myself a lucky lady for getting connected with a genuine and responsible man like you on the forum. thou I’m also new to the forum..but i have been here for about a week now..looking up to meet my soul mate but very unfortunate I’m used to coming across unserious men that are not genuine..all they want is just sex with no string…and this a bit made me loose attention to get intense to the Net…but lucky me.. i found you after a short while i was about letting it go. Just to let you know, i have stop seeking and have been less operating on the forum since i found you and I’m sure it’s only a few days more to chat here with you before we meet face to face in person to move the relationship to the next level. I wish you could concentrate on only me too so you won’t waste your time with cam girls that would want you to signup on their website. DON’T THINK I’M JEALOUS… IT’S ALL BECAUSE I CARE.. I can rest assure you that I’m real and I’m willing to share my life experience with you…i will fill your heart with an endless love you have never had before..i will always make you happy and never make you cry..only if it’s a tears of Joy. I will also give you every bit that your heart desires..but i won’t ask you for much…all i want is just for you to show some care and love me back. Moreover,i think i need to tell you a bit about myself to provide you a good understand of the real who Am…and if you manage to find the thing that annoys the crap out of me please don’t hesitate to let me know. I’ve been single for years now and my previous relationship lasted for only 2years before it was crashed by misunderstanding ( I WILL TELL YOU ABOUT IT SOME OTHER TIME ). My expectation in a relationship….well,all i want from a man is love,understanding and ability to excite me not just sexually or physically, but mentally as well most especially a man to judge me by my heart and not by my manner..and my turn off for a man is cheat and Lies. ” I hate it when a man is not honest. ” My Philosophy to life…i believe Simplicity wins the easy world..those who live a hard life when life is hard doesn’t find life to be easy but those who live it simple when life is hard find life to be easy.. I’m simple,i live my life for only God to judge me, I don’t care about what life might bring for me..i believe every circumstances comes from heaven… my life pursue is just to survive on earth and be successful..i believe that heaven is real.. My sex orientation…Sex for me has to be mutual with emotional feelings and also adventurous from both parties.. What i like to do for Fun (insert first name),Well, i like the outdoors. I love the tune of Music and love to go out for Meal/drink or dinner in a restaurant to hear the tune of music ..i also like to go to cinemas to watch movie,or walk alone with my partner in the beach and rub minds when there is nobody there and i also fancy window shopping… About my Family and Background… well, i was born into an extended family..just only Mother, Father,Grandma and I’m the only child of my parent…i have no siblings..i have lost my dad since my age eighteen and was brought up by my mother who later had cancer at my tender age she is in UK i shall visit her soon… Now I’m alone and i need a partner to start another family precisely my own family and raise children… My Job.. I’m very hard working and i hate to depend on a man to survive…i also don’t like people getting to know about my problem… Lastly what i look for in a man……well,i don’t judge people generally by their age, appearance or manner..what matter most to is a GOOD HEART and MATURITY.. What gives me a turn on for a man is honesty and caring. I WILL SEND TO YOU SOME OTHER MAIL…ABOUT ME. LETS JUST TAKE IT SLOWLY. Regards Email 5: (Insert First name), Am happy you are interested in learning more about me ,I have never dealt with anyone in the service nor on the Sites and my favorite food is sushi so i like taco bell also and McDonald as everyone but i usually don’t dine in many restaurants as am a great cooker,lol. CAN I TRUST U ENOUGH TO GIVE YOU MY PHONE NUMBER. I’LL WAIT A FEW DAYS BEFORE I DO THAT . About my family its a long story to tell and touching because that make me share tears whenever i remembered my past, I will keep this short, I came out from a good combination of two, my Mom is from UK while Dad is a native of Australia but they got married here in United state and started their life together as one. Am the only child of my parent and i was born here in United state which am proud to be a citizen of our country. I will count it, I have a big Family because i don’t know much about my Moms family in the United Kingdom, while my Dads part is very small town, Unfortunately i lost my father and a little story of my life i never tell any one about this am writing you and do please keep this to your self than telling any friend sharing my word about my dad with any one out there or your friends. I was born in a glass house ( Very Good Background ) , i never lacked anything, young and smile with everyone, sobs… but since my father’s death i have started to live my life by myself and not depending on my family, although i still miss my Dad because of the courage and advises he use to give to me about life, but Am glad Am whom Am today. But i do have to be thanking God all day and night that I and my mother are happy and alive today. Mom do stay in UK London and I’m Planing to visit her very soon about my business cos no one else like mother to me,that’s my back bone as am working into a new business of buying and selling of Arts work and sculptures, as for now. Am so close to my God now, that i have a mission, purpose in this life cos a lot of life has been vanished, more than 88 life and some houses and vehicles including my father Auto Trading wear house burnt up in an explosion of a pipeline as i did mention to you earlier in my previous mail, the explosion occurred due to a reckless construction using a bulldozer in the process of it’s construction activities without map. The explosion of the pipeline caused by the HI-TECH construction company whose their bulldozer burst the pipeline, Hi tech Nigeria limited and the Lagos state Government and the Nigeria National petroleum corporation and pipelines, marketing company, used the company After the government signed this contract for this part of the construction company, HI-TECH started work, recklessly without obtaining the necessary map for the specific location of the service pipes network also they were been charged for not following the international best practices on safety standards. The pipeline passed through the area of my Late father’s wear house in ijegun isolo road .The pipes were buried 0.5 meter deep without any concrete covering,instead of 2.5 meters. I don’t really wanna voice out this feeling about my bad news in life but i don’t know what really came into me now that am behind your feeling of friendship in my heart because have promise to start a new life in state here and not to voice out this to anyone else. All these mistakes caused the fire disaster to which i lost my father including his auto trading wear house in Nigeria, West Africa. Well back to dad, the Government realized that this affected my late father to lost his life with his company, wear house with some people in the community of ijegun. That are involved in the fire disaster of the pipeline explosion for some compensation. The principle of law states that where there is injury, there must be a remedy. As my father has suffered injury of losing his life of which the Government are entitled to compensate at the end, so my mother demanded for $22 Million compensation, From the jointly and severally capable parties of lawyers as i heard they latter Finalized at the sum of $17 Million only been a compensation from the Government and the next meeting for having the compensation from the Government over there in West Africa (Nigeria) with the parties of lawyers will be soon, which i never know as i have never have more details about this since last year until I’ll be visiting my mother soon because there are few things about myself that I want you to know, as I just discovered some vital documents of fund deposit of a possessed some amount of Gold in a treasure box at a data trust security Company in West part of Africa also and the Document of this funds is Save in one of the bank in United Kingdom with my name as the next of kin, I want you to understand that am processing to visit UK to see my family lawyer for more details about this and see my mother about my late father compensation and for my new business. well we have a lot to talk with all that my dad left for me. Life is always nice when you have both your parent beside but my is pretty tough i lost my Dad too soon, but i believe God has a purpose for everything and i know that what will be will surely be. But with time i know am a Gold to be in my family and have a better Golden future. Dear, you came across as a nice Man to me and I even want to learn about the secrets you very rarely share with someone!. So come on and share it all with me, as Am not here to talk to you about general things such as partying, the weather, sports, e.t.c. I want to learn about you and what makes up your heart and soul, as the friendship I want to build with you I want it to be like no other you have ever shared in or experienced. Please am looking forward to hear from you,i care and hope to talk with you again. Stay safe…
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