My husband had a 6 month affair and secret apartment after meeting this woman Jalinda Sallee, we were together 16 years, raised 3 blended family kids and had 2 kids together. He moved her in next door and told our kids she was the gay neighbor. He tried to come back home many times but I was so disgusted. They have opened a small restaurant in my tiny town so it is a constant reminder of how he left us in foreclosure, in debt and not paying child support. I am his second wife and he also has a child he never met that gets child support.