I have been with my husband for 28 years. We have 4 kids between us and 5 grand kids he even adopted my older son.We have gone threw so much together. He was there for me after I lost my first husband. Lost are home to fire! 3 miscarriages just so we could have are son together. After all these years I never felt I need to check his phone or anything I truly believed in us. Then one day had to use his phone seen a message saying side job. Just something told me to look at it. It was all these messages about how much they loved each other and were going to get married and have kids. She was asking for all sorts of stuff like a new phone. I felt like I had just lost the most Important piece of my life. I could not understand .This woman is 20 years younger then him the same age as our older son .She new he was married he told her and nether of them cared.