I was married to Paul for 12 years, and he accused me of cheating the entire time. He would check my underwear, my phone, my email, my car, my purse, everything! When I suspected it was because he was actually a cheater, I stupidly believed it was because he had been cheated on before. I was in the hospital for a week, two days of which I was in a coma. He didn’t call, visit, or even let my family know I was in the hospital. No, instead he smoked pot, drank, went to strip clubs, whacked off to porn and slept with other women. Don’t believe anything this man tells you!